Among women who stopped expecting their partner to be the erotic center of their lives, his warmth — not his penis — predicted whether she was satisfied with him.
Supplementation! I don't think I will ever see this word again without thinking about this story. One word sets the whole tone. Oh, to sit in that chair, in that session. Great tale.
What if the supplementary, adequate male, as a human being, gives warmth and tenderness and develops romantic feelings towards the woman he has sex with, which would be a natural consequence.
That's a good and fair question. My honest and best answer is I'm not sure. Except that I think it is possible to have and to hold love for more than one person. I'm a hopeless romantic. I don't think love is a zero sum equation. Of course, saying that doesn't make it any easier to find, to hold, to cherish, to give, to receive. But I think it is possible.
Then we are at open relationship which is not CNM anymore. And everyone involved will find out if she/ he can cope with it. Maybe I will soon. So far it produced a wonderful openness and honesty that tightened our bond.
Supplementation! I don't think I will ever see this word again without thinking about this story. One word sets the whole tone. Oh, to sit in that chair, in that session. Great tale.
Thank you 😍
What if the supplementary, adequate male, as a human being, gives warmth and tenderness and develops romantic feelings towards the woman he has sex with, which would be a natural consequence.
That's a good and fair question. My honest and best answer is I'm not sure. Except that I think it is possible to have and to hold love for more than one person. I'm a hopeless romantic. I don't think love is a zero sum equation. Of course, saying that doesn't make it any easier to find, to hold, to cherish, to give, to receive. But I think it is possible.
Then we are at open relationship which is not CNM anymore. And everyone involved will find out if she/ he can cope with it. Maybe I will soon. So far it produced a wonderful openness and honesty that tightened our bond.
That's lovely. I'm glad. And I'm still learning so I welcome your feedback.