Thank you for your work! I can identify myself in many ways, also with the comments. In my case I only think I stepped onto this path because of a divorce. A rejection that caused deep wounds. During the marriage I developed a longing for submission that was offered but then taken away. After the divorce the urge for submission grew stronger and the sissy path got established. In another relationship I suppressed all that, but erectile dysfunction made it all obvious that acting adequacy becomes pointless. And I instinctively adapted more to oral service( joy on my side). In my current relationship I opened about up about feminization which is not only embraced but encouraged by my partner. Penetrative sex has fully vanished for us because of premature ejaculation that made it in joyful for her and is replaced by a cuckold mindset in both of us, meaning she is free to explore and I am understood as staying faithful to her. Degration is no part of that. We are both very happy with each other and are living a very strong relationship and I am very thankful having found such a partner.
This sounds so very healthy and lovely. I just wrote a piece this morning that might be more in line with the relationship you built. (The Threshold lab is a publication of the Responsive Male so you might not have received an email about it since it requires you to manually add it to your subscription options).
Regardless, I'm so happy that you were able to find a path forward that works for you both. That's what matters so much. I'm so pleased to hear when subscribers find something that works and is healthy and stable. It makes me happy. Delightful 😍💕😊
This is brilliant, and exactly addresses the thoughts and confusion I have personally had over gender identity. I knew I wasn’t gay, but I had no way to adequately describe it.
You put it perfectly, "For the inadequate male, the binary places him elsewhere. He cannot occupy the masculine position—it is held by those more adequate than him. And if he cannot be the man, the binary has only one other place to put him.
He is the girl.
Not because he wants to be female. Not because he is attracted to men. But because the hierarchy permits no third category, and his psychology—correctly processing his position—outputs the only result available.
The sissy is not homosexual. The sissy is not transgender.
The sissy is what the male hierarchy produces when it encounters an inadequate male whose psychology completes the binary.”
This article was wonderful! It really helped me understand myself in a way i hadn’t before. I think about worshipping a nice big cock, but I have no desire to go out with a man.
my ideal situation would be a Strong Woman Who owns me and uses me, among many other ways, to fluff or even suck off Her Alpha male sex partners
This work explains so much. It's so confusing to be male, to be straight, to be unattractive to men at all in the outside world, and yet to feel compelled to wear panties and to find myself in my daily private time looking at pictures of hard adequate cock and acknowledging an innate need to suck it.
I agree. And I am so grateful for your comments and feedback. I must admit whenever I write something about the sissy framework I worry I will make a mess of things. It is such a relief to know that I haven't entirely missed the mark (which I am sure I will do but we live and learn, right?) Thanks again for the comments and for reading and supporting my work. It means so much to me. 💕😊💕
Thank you for your work! I can identify myself in many ways, also with the comments. In my case I only think I stepped onto this path because of a divorce. A rejection that caused deep wounds. During the marriage I developed a longing for submission that was offered but then taken away. After the divorce the urge for submission grew stronger and the sissy path got established. In another relationship I suppressed all that, but erectile dysfunction made it all obvious that acting adequacy becomes pointless. And I instinctively adapted more to oral service( joy on my side). In my current relationship I opened about up about feminization which is not only embraced but encouraged by my partner. Penetrative sex has fully vanished for us because of premature ejaculation that made it in joyful for her and is replaced by a cuckold mindset in both of us, meaning she is free to explore and I am understood as staying faithful to her. Degration is no part of that. We are both very happy with each other and are living a very strong relationship and I am very thankful having found such a partner.
This sounds so very healthy and lovely. I just wrote a piece this morning that might be more in line with the relationship you built. (The Threshold lab is a publication of the Responsive Male so you might not have received an email about it since it requires you to manually add it to your subscription options).
Regardless, I'm so happy that you were able to find a path forward that works for you both. That's what matters so much. I'm so pleased to hear when subscribers find something that works and is healthy and stable. It makes me happy. Delightful 😍💕😊
This is brilliant, and exactly addresses the thoughts and confusion I have personally had over gender identity. I knew I wasn’t gay, but I had no way to adequately describe it.
You put it perfectly, "For the inadequate male, the binary places him elsewhere. He cannot occupy the masculine position—it is held by those more adequate than him. And if he cannot be the man, the binary has only one other place to put him.
He is the girl.
Not because he wants to be female. Not because he is attracted to men. But because the hierarchy permits no third category, and his psychology—correctly processing his position—outputs the only result available.
The sissy is not homosexual. The sissy is not transgender.
The sissy is what the male hierarchy produces when it encounters an inadequate male whose psychology completes the binary.”
This! Thank You!!!
I'm so delighted. And gratified. And I know I probably say this a lot but thank you for supporting me and my writing. 😊😘
This article was wonderful! It really helped me understand myself in a way i hadn’t before. I think about worshipping a nice big cock, but I have no desire to go out with a man.
my ideal situation would be a Strong Woman Who owns me and uses me, among many other ways, to fluff or even suck off Her Alpha male sex partners
Such a lovely compliment. Thank you. And I expect you are not alone in feeling this way. 😊💕
This work explains so much. It's so confusing to be male, to be straight, to be unattractive to men at all in the outside world, and yet to feel compelled to wear panties and to find myself in my daily private time looking at pictures of hard adequate cock and acknowledging an innate need to suck it.
If only real science would tackle this question because I really do think you aren't alone in feeling that sense of confusion.
I agree. And I am so grateful for your comments and feedback. I must admit whenever I write something about the sissy framework I worry I will make a mess of things. It is such a relief to know that I haven't entirely missed the mark (which I am sure I will do but we live and learn, right?) Thanks again for the comments and for reading and supporting my work. It means so much to me. 💕😊💕